Life blows

When dealt with a hard blow like your spouse leaving you with no job, 3 kids and no child support (none!!) Really makes life difficult. I've been looking for a good job to work around my children. It's not working out. Three years is too long to find one. I have to work around there schedule, since they are not all in school full time yet, just makes it even harder. I will try and leave some tips if I come across any and I would love for anyone to do the same.